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Relationship Red Flags

"Is that a red flag, or am I overthinking it?" It's one of the most common — and loneliest — questions people ask about their relationship. This test helps you answer it honestly, without minimising what you're feeling or blowing it out of proportion.

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The difference between a doubt and a red flag

Every relationship has doubts. Not every doubt is a red flag. A red flag is a pattern — something that shows up again and again, that you've tried to raise and couldn't, or that makes you feel less like yourself.

This test asks about those patterns directly, so you can see whether what you're noticing is part of the normal friction of a relationship or something that deserves real attention.

If something serious shows up

The test has a safety layer. If your answers describe patterns that could be genuinely harmful, the result says so plainly — and points you to confidential support — instead of burying it inside a compatibility score.

That matters more than any number. Your safety comes before the result looking tidy.

What you do with what you find

The free summary shows your strongest areas and the ones worth real conversation. The optional personalised report separates ordinary doubts from deeper concerns, and gives you a readiness checklist and conversation starters for the things that need them.

Questions people ask

Will it label my partner as a red flag?

No. It looks at patterns in the relationship, not at diagnosing anyone. If something serious shows up, it tells you plainly and points you to support.

What if I'm not sure whether something counts?

That's exactly what the test is for. The questions are designed to help you see clearly what you've been trying to work out on your own.

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